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Can you recall your first kiss? What about the first time you felt the warm exhilarating rush of a full body turn on?
Even if the kiss didn't lead to sex. And even if that first experience of turn on didn't even lead to a conversation, these first encounters can leave a lasting imprint on your core erotic theme or CET.
So what is a core erotic theme, you ask? Your core erotic theme is core in that it sits at the heart of your individual eroticism. It is thematic in that the different story lines of relationships that you've experienced and the fantasies that turn you on have been inspired by an underlying theme. The script of the actual experience or fantasy might be different but the themes are the same.
How do you start to discover your unique CET?
Start by thinking of the collection of images, fantasies and real life encounters that have been peak turn ons for you.
What do you see?
What patterns or themes do they have in common?
By taking some time to explore your experiences and fantasies, you can begin to discern a pattern and discover the secrets of your true eroticism.
It's important to keep in mind that your CET is more than a simple checklist of turn-ons! By understanding your unique CET, you can develop a greater ability to understand why you have chosen certain partners and why certain things turn you on! You can also be more empowered about future choices around your sexuality.
Dr. Jack Morin discovered that we all have a CET or Core Erotic Theme, and goes into more detail in his book, The Erotic Mind. I highly recommend it or
If this is something you want to talk about and explore deeper, I'd love to chat more with you!
Feel free to book a free call with me using the link below.
Fun Fact: Almost all Core Erotic Themes rest on one or more of the Four Cornerstones of Eroticism, which I will be cover in next weeks newsletter! So stay tuned π
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