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š„ How Your Erotic Power Feeds Your Feminine Power - A Sneak Peek š«£
Hey there, Reader Saturday was incredible! We had such a great turn out. I LOVED the conversation about Kink and answering such great questions from attendees. I thought I'd share a clip with you from the webinar here: I will be doing it all again this Saturday, April 4 at 1030AM Pacific time on zoom and if you missed the last one, You can sign up here! Click Here To Sign Up For the FREE WEBINAR! OK, My Sweet Friend, that's it for now~ All My Love, Ms. Julia Jewels š You are receiving this...
The Good, The Bad & The Unsafe: A Toy Guide Just for Women
Hey there, Reader Have you ever started to shop for new toys and got totally overwhelmed all the choices out there? Maybe you have had some bad experiences with one or two and that has turned you off completely. I totally get that. I have definitely explored my share of different toys over the years. Even long before I became a sex coach, I'd love to peruse the aisles of my local adult bookstore to see what new naughty toys had arrived. As a coach, I've been asked a time or two what my...
š„Imagine 2026 Is The Sexiest Year Of Your Life
Hey there, Reader Have you ever thought to yourself, "I should just know what to do. It's not that bad. Other people have it worse than I do..." As women, a lot of us were trained to put ourselves last and put our own desires and pleasure at the very bottom of that list... if and when we get around to it. The truth is, putting your desires and pleasure at the TOP of your list and taking care of you, even in small ways, can pave the way for massive positive changes in your life, in and out of...
You Don't Have To Spend Another Year Wishing and Hoping...
Hey there, Reader Have you ever thought to yourself, "I should just know what to do. It's not that bad. Other people have it worse than I do..." As women, a lot of us were trained to put ourselves last and put our own desires and pleasure at the very bottom of that list... if and when we get around to it. The truth is, putting your desires and pleasure at the TOP of your list and taking care of you, even in small ways, can pave the way for massive positive changes in your life, in and out of...
ā¤ļøThe Immediate Pleasure Shift That Changes Everything
Hey there, Reader By now, you may have noticed something subtle. When you slow down enough to feel pleasureā¦ when you stop shaming your desireā¦ ALL of your relationships start to change. Not because youāre trying to be different, but because youāre less willing to abandon yourself. This is the week where that becomes visible. A common misunderstanding about pleasure and connection Many women were taught, directly or indirectly ā that connection requires effort from us to make it easy for...
What your desire is actually trying to tell you...
Hey there, Reader So, how'd it go with the pleasure practices last week? Now that youāve had a moment to land in your body, I want to talk about something a little more charged. Desire. Not the kind that demands action. Not the kind that sends you spiraling into āShould I do something about this?ā But the quieter, truer kind. The desires that whisper and show up as curiosity, longing, or a subtle pull toward more. Hereās the thing most of us were never taught: Desire is not a problem. Itās a...
Is your sex drive actually ātoo muchāā¦ or just shamed?
Hey there, Reader Have you ever wondered if your sex drive is too high? Not because itās ruining your life ābut because someone, somewhere, made you feel like a woman shouldnāt want this much. I just released a new YouTube video where I break down the real differences between high desire, hypersexuality, and compulsive sexual behavior ā and why shame, culture, and religion so often blur those lines for women. This isnāt about diagnosing yourself or fixing anything.Itās about getting curious,...
Discover What Already Feels Good š
Hey there, Reader Happy New Year! January has a particular energy. It can feel demanding and slightly aggressive... like: This is the year you finally fix everything. Suddenly weāre supposed to wake up earlier, want better things, be more disciplined, be more evolved, have clearer goals, cleaner habits, hotter sex, calmer nervous systemsā¦ all by January 3rd. This definitely stacks up to wreak havoc on your nervous system. No wonder so many of us feel behind before the year has even started....
šŗBut First... Pleasure! š Feeling Yourself Flow.
Hey Gorgeous, Reader Let's talk about something revolutionary: moving just because it feels good. You know those little extra movements that serve absolutely no practical purpose? The hip sway while you're making copies, the shoulder shimmy waiting for your coffee, the tiny dance party while brushing your teeth? That's what I call the Feel-Yourself Flow - those delicious little moments of movement that are purely about pleasure. No steps to count, no calories to burn, just you feeling good in...
šŗBut First... Pleasure! š Your Weekly SELF Love Note.
Hey Gorgeous, Reader You know that feeling when you're rushing around like a crazy person and suddenly realize you haven't taken a real DEEP BREATH in hours?! Yeah, let's fix that. This week's pleasure practice is deliciously simple: Take It S l o w. I'm not talking about some fancy meditation practice or adding ONE MORE THING to your to-do list. Nope. I'm talking about finding three moments to move like you're in thick honey. Like you've got all the time in the world. Like you're the star of...
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